What are friends? Are u my true friend?

Some times in life, we stop to ponder over things that puzzle us, or maybe things that upset us, or perhaps on why there are some things in life that we cannot control.

Since today, i began thinking what are true friends and who really are my true friends. Well i havent really come up with one definition of what true friends really mean. But of the top on my head, i believe that a true friend should be there when you need her, laugh with you, cry with you, crap with you and most impotantly not kick you when you already fell. And it's worse if you've known each other for year..how sad can things get? I seriously cant stand this kind of people. Backstabbing is such a terrible habit. it's a double edged dagger; the hurt you do, you do it to yourself too.

And sometimes i wonder why some people just want to irritate and piss you off. Does it really make you happy if you irritated someone today? I just dont understand, how can a person enjoy pissing people off and as a result make people detest you? Funny..this is one thing that i cant fanthom- the mindset of such people. is it because they are from nsch? maybe and i think there's a high possibility. And i also cant understand why some people can criticize you in your face without reservation. is it because you are suffering from inferior complex. Only people who feel inferior who will criticize others to make yourself feel better. Are you one of those? If that's the case i really pity you, do you need help? coz eventually you will find that your friends are avoiding you and you'll be all alone. You cant expect others to tolerate you all the time, people have limits.

Just like what i used to write on my friendster: I will be true to you only if you reciprocate. If you give me that non-chalent attitude, please go and talk to the wall. i think it's only fair and, another aspect of friendship is to reciprocate (both in the good and bad sense, to me). Also, im really resigned to fate that im stuck with you half the time, but it's okay coz i will only grow stronger amidst the adversity. So try your stinking attitude on me, i'll appreciate it coz ' the next time you see me, i will be a stronger person'. (This is a quote from zbb.hee..)














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